Hazrat Mawlana Yusuf Ludhiyanawi shaheed ra (khalifa of Sheikhul Hadith Mawlana Zakariya ra & Hazrat Arifi ra) said;
“It is reported from Hazrat Hatim ‘Asim ra that if there is disagreement either between your sister and brother-in law or your daughter and son-in-law you should be taking sides with your in-laws.
By doing this you will safe guard the piety of you sister and daughter. Whereas if you support your sister and daughter against their husbands you will harm their piety.”
Jang Karachi, Iqra, 7/12/1990