Shaykh Ziauddin Abu Najeeb Soharwardi (Allah have mercy on him) said,
‘It is the practice of the Sufis that they do not talk about an issue until they are asked to do so. Even then they reply according to the inquirer’s acumen.’
Adaab ul murideen, p41
Moreover, Hakim al Umma Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi (Allah have mercy on him) adds that before replying they turn to Allah asking for the most suitable answer for this individual.